Self Love

This is a very interesting and broad topic. Love is something that all human beings crave. Everyone is always busy trying to get love from others and also trying to show that they love the people they care for. We must therefore ask ourselves what love is. Love is actually one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit. It is an intense feeling of affection,warmth,adoration or fondness for someone/something.There are different types of love depending on the relationship between people.

I will major on self love. Self is the identity of any person or thing. Therefore,self love is the care/affection that one accords to himself or herself. People assume that they give themselves self love just because that is the person they live beneath. But the truth is that many people do not accord themselves the amount of affection they struggle to give to others. How can one know that they really know how to show love to themselves? Ask yourself the following questions :

1. Do I constantly compare myself to others?

2. Do I care so much about people’s opinions about me especially my physique?

3. Do I need people’s recognition in my day to day activities?

4. Do I choose myself over the people I care for when I really need to?

5. Do I say no to my friends when their plans inconvenience me?

6. Do I compliment myself often?

7. Do I feel confident?

For someone who loves themselves enough,they are able to answer the above questions without hesitation. Darling,you deserve to love yourself without limits and unconditionally. You should be able to take care of yourself the same way you strive to take care of those around you.

Thank you for reading through this. You can tell me the things you would like to hear about and ways I can improve this page for you.

By Ambitious Val

32 Comments

  1. Kibibi Lydia's avatar Kibibi Lydia says:

    Great piece 💯

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    1. Maina's avatar Maina says:

      That’s awesome,keep it up my lady

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      1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

        Thank youuu

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    2. Steve's avatar Steve says:

      Self love is the beginning of true love.
      Nice article 🔥

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      1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

        Thank you and I strongly agree with you🤗

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    3. Kenrick's avatar Kenrick says:

      Good piece, i have evaluated myself and clearly i need to work on some areas. Thank you

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      1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

        🤗thank you and welcome

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    4. wariiwambu's avatar wariiwambu says:

      I love this!♥️

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    5. Graca's avatar Graca says:

      Heeey,this is such an amazing content….I’m amazed

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    1. Faith's avatar Faith says:

      Girl you are doing it❤️
      A good one

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      1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

        Thanks baby girl😌

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  2. Livy's avatar Livy says:

    This is a great bold first step,give us more baby lets make it better and mind entriguing,you got ideas,u got the vibe ,give it all and at its best
    With love

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      🥺this is so lovely. Thanks darling ❣️. I am humbled.

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  3. Esther Ngei's avatar Esther Ngei says:

    I love this. I have asked myself all those questions and it has helped me realize on what I need to improve in myself…thanks Val.

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      Thanks girl🥺. I’ll give you more if such.

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  4. Kendy's avatar Kendy says:

    Me to self;”Darling you deserve to love you without limits..🤍”. Mahn!I love it🔥

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      Thanks sweetie ❤️

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  5. Got me reading it out aloud coz maaahn; piece on point🥰✌️

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      Aaaw,thanks for the assurance girl😌.

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  6. Gladys's avatar Gladys says:

    Nice article gal…
    keep up the good work🤗

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      Thanks darling 😌

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  7. Mercy's avatar Mercy says:

    I love this piece. A few months ago I decided to give myself the love I deserve and reading this had me see the progress I’ve made. Thanks 😊 and I can’t wait for more. Good job.

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      🥺 I literally got no words. Thanks girl❤️

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  8. Nancieh's avatar Nancieh says:

    Pure truth, I need to work on myself more often esp turning people down🤣🤣.
    Thanks for the enlightenment

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    1. ambitiousval's avatar ambitiousval says:

      You are welcome. I’m hoping we will all learn on how to put ourselves first without seeming selfish.

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    2. wariiwambu's avatar wariiwambu says:

      I love it!♥️

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      1. Evans's avatar Evans says:

        Great content👍

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  9. Scholastica's avatar Scholastica says:

    Great piece

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